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Bad Boy Vs Good Boy - Does Fascination Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Vs A Nice Guy?

Well, we have all heard that myth - that "nice guys" fail and the 'bad boys" attract women - but I don't think it is always true.

At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.

I believe there are other personality vectors involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the defining qualities of attraction.

Bad boys are often less shy, but at the same time they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" technique when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. However, I am not an easy hook and women can tell that immediately when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am fascinated with them or just being nice.

That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a perfect gentleman but haven't a clue if I am interested in them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - like that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.

Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be special. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without mentioning a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both attractive and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also keep in mind that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a community of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and unique. A woman who knows nothing but rough and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.

You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet persons like that. So no matter if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a position where you are interesting and special to the women you meet and you will be victorious.

One of the hardest things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly suitable to you. Even if you are boring there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one wants to meet and hook up with the life of the celebration.

The problem is people who don't accept themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you actually are, you will find that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are boring or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will see a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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